{"id":2367,"date":"2011-10-24T18:39:21","date_gmt":"2011-10-24T23:39:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/?p=2367"},"modified":"2011-11-04T23:24:07","modified_gmt":"2011-11-05T04:24:07","slug":"former-classmate-makes-good","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/?p=2367","title":{"rendered":"Former Classmate Makes Good"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My high school class just had its <a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/pages\/East-Rutherford-High-Schools-40th-Reunion-Class-of-1971\/112387472132251\" target=\"_blank\">40th anniversary reunion.<\/a>  I didn&#8217;t go; I didn&#8217;t want to shell out $80 or whatever to spend an evening with a group of strangers.  Well, they&#8217;re not totally strangers, although I did not stay in touch with anyone from my high school class.  I can&#8217;t say that I remember talking with anyone from my class in the past 35 years, even though I only live 7 or 8 miles from the old town, and I still go there quite frequently (since my brother still lives there).  <\/p>\n<p>There are people from my class that I would have enjoyed speaking with. But for the most part, high school was not the place where I had my best times with others.  Senior year wasn&#8217;t so bad, but the first three years were pretty rough; bullying back then was still considered a form of performance art.  And I participated in a lot of command performances.  After I got the &#8220;save the date&#8221; letter from the reunion committee last year, I honestly thought about going.  But the memories were more bitter than sweet.  So I took a pass on it.<\/p>\n<p>And hey, why do I need to spend $80 to find out what happened to whom when there&#8217;s Facebook?  I&#8217;m still holding out <!--more-->from joining &#8220;The Social Network&#8221; (just like I&#8217;m holding out from using supermarket loyalty cards; it&#8217;s my tiny little bit of James Dean and Jack Kerouac coming through).  But the reunion &#8220;Facey&#8221; site is open to all, so I&#8217;ve been lurking quite merrily over the past few months, surreptitiously catching up with quite a few of my former classmates.  <\/p>\n<p>Not a heck of a lot of surprises there.  Our classes&#8217; biggest claim to fame was a tragic figure who died young, i.e. <a href=\"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/2004\/01\/25\/653\/\" target=\"_blank\">basketball burn-out Les Cason<\/a> (see also my <a href=\"jimgworld.com\/blog1\/2009\/02\/19\/216\" target=\"_blank\">2009 blog about him<\/a>).  But there is one surprise &#8220;come from behind&#8221; figure, someone I never would have guessed to become a &#8216;mover and shaker&#8217;.  His name is Bruce Coppa, and he was <a href=\"http:\/\/www.civilbeat.com\/articles\/2011\/10\/06\/13147-new-chief-of-staff-an-accomplished-businessman-with-strong-labor-ties\/\" target=\"_blank\">recently appointed<\/a> by newly elected (2010) Hawaii Governor Neil Abercrombie as his Chief of Staff.  <\/p>\n<p>Wow, little Bruce really made it in the Democratic political world!  He has also been a successful businessman;  you can <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=aJA5sh5ShJ0&#038;feature=related\" target=\"_blank\">watch him on YouTube<\/a> giving other small business owners inspiration and advice (but you have to wait a few minutes until he gets to speak).  I must say, that&#8217;s not the Bruce Coppa I remember!  With his gray hair and serious face, he now knows how to talk his way into a leadership role, looking confident, spewing all kinds of interesting facts, showing that he&#8217;s on top of the world situation.  <\/p>\n<p>By contrast, the Bruce I knew (in passing) was &#8220;an individualist&#8221;, as the 1971 ERHS yearbook says.  He didn&#8217;t even care enough to show up for his yearbook photo; there is a blank oval over his entry on page 41, and I can&#8217;t find any photographic trace of him anywhere else in the book.  Like myself, he wasn&#8217;t very involved; swim team for 3 years, that&#8217;s it (versus my one year on the track team and one year with math league).  I remember Bruce Coppa for one thing: in senior year, he told someone that I remind him of James Stewart, and so &#8220;Stewie&#8221; became my nickname until graduation.  <\/p>\n<p>(I&#8217;m not sure if I like that one better or worse than the nickname the detectives at work recently gave me: &#8220;the hammer&#8221;; but then again, the guy who thought that one up, Joe S., also has a claim to fame: he grew up in North Newark with Frankie Valli, yes the real Frankie Valli . . .)<\/p>\n<p>So it&#8217;s a bit of a surprise to see Mr. Coppa today in Hawaii as a successful businessman and political operator.  But it&#8217;s a nice surprise, actually.  I wish Bruce a hearty &#8220;aloha&#8221; (and I wouldn&#8217;t have seen him at the reunion even had I gone, as the new appointment kept him on the island). He certainly has his work cut out for him, given that Governor Abercrombie wound up the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kitv.com\/r\/29553806\/detail.html\" target=\"_blank\">least-popular governor<\/a> in a recent state-by-state survey (maybe it was his proposed soda tax? people still love their soda).  <\/p>\n<p>Hey, perhaps I should remind Bruce once again of Jimmy Stewart, specifically regarding his role in <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Mr._Smith_Goes_to_Washington\" target=\"_blank\">Mr. Smith Goes to Washington<\/a>.  Stewart \/ Smith was also very unpopular as a fictional politician, but was vindicated in the end!  Maybe Bruce can pull off another &#8220;Stewie&#8221; for the old Gov.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My high school class just had its 40th anniversary reunion. I didn&#8217;t go; I didn&#8217;t want to shell out $80 or whatever to spend an evening with a group of strangers. Well, they&#8217;re not totally strangers, although I did not stay in touch with anyone from my high school class. I can&#8217;t say that I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2367"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2367"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2367\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2398,"href":"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2367\/revisions\/2398"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2367"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2367"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jimgworld.com\/blog1\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2367"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}